My husband, Paul, and I have been married since 2018. This coming October we’ll celebrate four years! (How does time pass so quickly?!)
One thing that’s been a pillar in our relationship in terms of understanding each other and learning to communicate well over the past four years has been personality type theory. On the Enneagram, I am a 7w8 and he is an 8w7 — closely adjacent types with very similar motivations. But the Enneagram alone only got us so far in understanding our key communication differences… what’s been most helpful has been the Myers-Briggs.